On our birthday

Next month would be my birthday, but I don't know if I will celebrate it. Bro in law and I have same birthday and he's celebrating his 5oth birthday. He already made invitations to some friends and the whole family. If I were to be asked for I don't anymore prepare a birthday celebration for me to lessen stress . Its enough that I have another year to cherish and be thankful of. Anyway what is a perfect gift to a golfer maybe a Titleist golf will do. I hope so bro in law will like our gift for him on our birthday